And i tot i was all ok. I believed that i am ok now. but when i looked through all the pictures taken from my sister's wedding my eyes tell a different story. i guess i am still going to deny it all...
I guess its easy to listen and advise people but its hard to do it by ourselves when the problem lies in front of us. and we cant say you are wrong to those who said "you told me once..." yes i did tell u once. the only thing i have to have in mind is just to follow through what i tell others. confusing? heh.
sometime we know the ans but we just do not want to do it. i was talking to a fren about her problem, a problem of not able to forget someone. somehow she knows what is to be done but she does not want to do it cause of one reason... a reason that is a double edge sword: Hope. one side of hope is real hope and false hope (from what i know from myself) and she gives that false hope for herself. yes everything is possible but when we know its over means its over. i told her that do not be like someone i know to hang on someone when its done. somehow we want or everyone wants that perfect moment with the person we cant let go and we find someone who is able to fit perfectly or close to perfect with that ONE person. but everyone is unique. so i guess be thankful for the great your partner has done for you and be patient with the flaw he/she have.
"let it go, if its meant to be yours it will come back to you, if not so be it..." its nature. what is meant to be together it will be. i am sure many will believe that. how many times things will fly away from us but somehow it will come back. think about it as we do take these incidents for granted and when it doesnt come back, we ask "Why?".
well for now its my work and my social life :)
Peace out!
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