Hi again... i realized that i only write when something happens in life, no matter about me or people around me so this time is no different. last night i got a message from a friend who was suffering from the same problem i had months ago. we left that everything is so perfect and without any notice, a dream can be a nightmare. there are so many things that we cannot comprehend nor predict, this is because we each has a unique characteristic on how we handle things in and about life.
sadly, some of us do not fit the other person's expectation and without warning everything seems to shatter and the aftermath of it is confusion, hurt and pain. yes i am still living in that situation, so when this friend of mine told me what happened i knew straight away what she was feeling. i may know quite a bit of things about life as i have gone through quite a bit though others have gone through more, but fortunate that i was able to help this friend of mine.
i came to realize that things can be so unpredictable but we still have to live with this cause once again this world is just a mystery. no matter how well prepared we are, we tend to drop our guard when things are how we want things to be. in front of us are just what we ever wanted and we take as it is and remove all things that may still happen... we block out these negative images cause we see what is what we wanted.
i am still struggling with what happened to me. yes time will just heal me but my senses are heightened, and dont wish this to happen to me. yes she is happy or not i am not sure. but no matter how hurt i am or us, life does not rotate around her only. slowly but surely i will be ok. i have to be, so to my friend as well, if u are reading this, u are not alone as i told u. problems are always there so just be prepared no matter how rosy it is. not suspious about it but just prepared. not only in relationships but in life.
no matter how much we love one person, if that person decides to let go it means its just not enough. we want to give even more but it may be too late. its not your fault nor mine. all we need is to compromise. but some people are just cant and do not want to compromise. all marriages work out cause its about compromising.
peace and take care
vin
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