a haunting past

True enough everyone has a past that we wish that we could forget and move on. Sadly, thats just what we tell ourselves. to move on. is it all reality or just an illusion that or when we thought we have moved on. it feels like that past that we held so dearly like a hook on a fish, is just not going to go away. as i always tell people, time will heal but how long. the agonizing wait is just too much for some of us to hold. nevertheless, time may not full heal us but does make things easier. in my facebook i got a quote written as

"its so easy to avoid than to face it. but if you don't face it when are u going to move forward. don't stay in the past please"

Yea. so why live in the past when we can look forward and feel better for ourselves? its hard enough to conquer our daily events, problems so why do we want to still give ourselves more problems by holding to the past. well easier said than done. living in the past will hurt our future no matter may it be relationship or what it may be.

guess i got one thing to say... the past is good for memories, haunting or sweet it will be with us. but lets just not keep circling in our fantasy world, where we see it as where we are comfortable or that X factor that keeps us locked to the past. True we dont know what the future holds but know that its better than the past. we were born, we live and we move on to lead on a better life. I was told i should move on, and to that person... you should to. does not matter if the next person u will be with is me or not, but be fair to the next and give yourself a chance to love.

Well thats a short note. i guess i have lived a life with many haunting but haunting will only come when we want it to.

Peace,

vin