After a long chat, i had to rethink about my life and priorities of my life and how it affects directly or indirectly to others. Its weird in a way that many of us dont tend to be themselves thus ending up hurting others (like what i did) to love, to give, to prioritize, to be open and others. I missed out on one view of "to love"...
To love is to give without any thoughts, just our willingness and dedication. Sometimes i guess when we want to love someone, we are scared to get hurt so we dont usually open much of ourselves to others which is a bad idea. unconditional love is the ultimate love some can give. Jesus died on the cross for us without a word of complain... we definitely cant be him but his way of showing love can be applied not only in relationships but to friends as well, yea there is a risk behind all that and thats why people are closed up sometimes. i need or we need to remember again, we cant calculate everything... what we need to do is to give without thinking. it sounds hard but its doable.
we must not be selfish and live life to the fullest, we have duties to carry out as well and i know what is mine AGAIN. why again? simple, i lost it in the midst of closure. there is no right or wrong, to me now i remember the feeling of giving. not all are able to do this but we are trained to give as much as we can to the poor and to help. especially when it comes to money... money can be earned again so why do we fear so much of not having any?
we missed out on the simplicity of life in the complexity of the modern world. simple things in life are just most valuable now a days. we need to remind ourselves that.
Without the simple things in our life, how can we handle all the complexity? o gosh... why did i lose myself and end up in this situation. true enough we dont live of others as well but what do we have to lose when we give? its how we show ourselves...
So remember what i said and it will be helpful when the time comes... simplicity...
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