F.E.A.R

I was asked whats fear by a friend. so what is fear? Or whats your greatest fear? For me is the fear of heights, well all fears can be cured I guess just by facing it once or multiple times. Then again, many have tried to conquer their fears by trying to face them but made it worse for some reason.

There is though another form of fear than physical fears such as emotional and mental fears. Well I am not a pro at this but the thing is that fear is a good and can be a bad thing at the same time as fear some times stop us to go for our goals, good? well it challenges us somewhat so really depends on how your definition of fear is. To me, Emotional fear is really... annoying... Fear of losing someone for instance, this fear creates jealousy, over-protectiveness and other negative issues. This can be associated to your close family and friends. Relationships or those who are going to "pass on". For relationship wise, instead of fearing of losing that person, just simply care for that person I suppose but dont go too far and oversuspicious, this to me, create unnecessary issues. Its pretty normal for people to get jealous at times but constantly, its kinda annoying trying to pamper and feed that other person's feel of insecurity. Learn how to pull and let go i guess. For the second issue. well just be ready, but then again we can never be ready for losing someone out of the blue... to me if it happens, it happens. Cherish little things day by day, be thankful and grateful for the day. But guess not everyone gets that.

Everyone is fearful over something at least. thats what makes us human. But with God's help, anything is possible. :)

-wanting everything will make you lose everything-